What Filming a Sex Scene is Really Like: DeeDee Luxe and Calamity Chang Explain 'Shame' Threesome

Shame Threesome

First Posted: 01/11/12 12:33 PM ET Updated: 01/12/12 06:49 PM ET

Michael Fassbender has gotten some deserved awards-season buzz for his towering role in "Shame" -- a film where he famously bared all. If you've seen the movie, you know Fassbender wasn't the only one to strip down for its gritty sex scenes -- perhaps the most memorable act involves his threesome with two women. So who are those women, exactly?

They're professional burlesque dancers DeeDee Luxe and Calamity Chang. I reached out to them separately, hoping to get the skinny on what really goes down during a Hollywood sex scene. Turns out, they've become fast friends since their on-camera tryst -- they immediately texted each other and decided on a spot where we could all meet.

And so it was at a swanky West Village wine bar that I found myself sandwiched between two gorgeous, glamorous women, giggling and sipping Malbec as we discussed on-screen vs. off-screen chemistry, first-time female-on-female makeout sessions, and what kind of a kisser Fassbender is. Girls will be girls, as it happens -- here are eight things I learned, straight from the source.

1. YOUR DIRECTOR MAY GET A LITTLE BASHFUL, EVEN IF YOU'RE NOT

Did you have to take off your clothes for the audition?

Calamity Chang: Yes. But [director Steve McQueen] was so polite, he was like, "Uh, I'm going to turn this way, just let me know when you're ready." [DeeDee laughs] You know, like, we're accustomed to being naked in public!

You're accustomed to being naked, but not FULLY naked right?

DeeDee Luxe: I am. But that being said, I guess doing that when you're not on a stage -- instantly I felt comfortable with him. If I didn't, I wouldn't have done the movie.

On the day of shooting, was it nerve-wracking having a bunch of crew members watch you?

DDL: It was a closed set. It was Steve, the filmographer Sean Bobbitt...

CC: So there were really five of us in the room.

I was going to say -- and then you're going to lunch with all of them!

DDL: Honestly, I don't think I would've had a problem with that.

CC: Me neither!

DDL: Once you get in the scene, you block it out. Just like when you're on the stage. I'll get nervous right before I go on, and I think that I felt the same way before we shot the scene, but once we started doing it you really get into your character.

CC: I think it says a lot about Steve's decorum and respect for the actors that he's working with -- to have it closed. We would've done it anyway, because that's what we signed up for.

2. CONSIDERATION IS KEY

What did you each do to prepare for being naked on camera?

DDL: Shower and shave! [Calamity laughs]

CC: I shave, I moisturize. Brush your teeth. We brought gum.

DDL: Yeah, we brought mints and stuff.

CC: Michael was doing that, too ... he was using the little toothbrush thing.

DDL: We were all very conscious of that. They made us break for dinner and I was like, "No! We already freshened up! Now I gotta go eat?"

CC: Yeah, so we were like, "No garlic, no red onions or anything."

3. GET TO KNOW YOUR COWORKERS BEFORE YOU GET TO KNOW YOUR COWORKERS

Did you two hang out before the scene was filmed?

Calamity: Yeah, and I'd heard of DeeDee before I knew her and so when we were both picked for the roles by the person from the burlesque agency, she said, "Oh, well, DeeDee Luxe is going to be your partner." So then we synched up. DeeDee came by to my show ... and we chatted really quickly, and I was so glad because I didn't know who I was going to be acting with, if she was going to be some crazy, like --

DDL: You were so chill!

CC: And you were too!

DDL: It was pretty much we got cast and they were like, "Can you do it Friday?" It was like, "All right! I don't have time to get my nails done!" It was like, bam! I think that's kind of how [McQueen] operates. He likes to have people just ... you know, real.

The casting director has mentioned how difficult it was to get people to be in this movie -- and I'm sure part of it is that people had to take it on faith that the subject of sexual addiction was going to be handled properly. And if you're not someone from the film world or you don't know about Steve's material, it could be scary.

CC: I did my research before. I looked him up. And of course I knew who Michael Fassbender was because of "Inglourious Basterds." So I knew that this is a real film, this is not like the casting couch for a porno.

How did they pitch the movie to you?

CC: They said the film is a major film by an award-winning director. They didn't give us any names until we were selected.

DDL: I know after I left I had a little packet they gave me, all stuff about Michael, and I had already looked up Steve ... and I was really impressed. So I knew he was an artist.

So you both met the night before the scene, but how did you meet Michael? The day of shooting?

DDL: We met while we were in hair and make-up.

CC: We introduced ourselves and then we just sat there and did our hair and make-up, and we chitchatted.

DDL: He's human, he's meeting people for the first time too and he's going to be naked -- so I think we all made each other feel comfortable, because we were casual and we were joking around. Between takes we'd just sit on the bed and talk about stuff. It didn't hurt either that it was easy to make out with him.

4. EVEN PROFESSIONALS CAN BE FIRST-TIMERS

CC: If anything, I was more nervous about making out with DeeDee because I've never made out with a girl. This was the first threesome -- in every sense of the word, in real life or on film -- I've ever had! So with Michael I was like, "Oh, whatever it's just a guy."

Did you tell DeeDee that before the scene?

CC: I told her that the night that we first met.

Did you guys just kiss and get it out of the way before you were on camera?

CC: No, we waited until we were on camera.

5. HAVING A BURLESQUE BACKGROUND GIVES YOU AN EDGE

DDL: Our scene was re-shot ... it was originally shot with two different actresses and Steve didn't like how it turned out, so they re-cast it.

I wonder if those other actresses had burlesque experience -- I bet that really made a difference.

CC: She and I have the same energy. I think going into it we were comfortable with our bodies and we weren't too worried about how we'd be portrayed.

DDL: I think because we're performance artists that nudity to us isn't a big deal. But he's an artist and we're artists and it just felt really natural.

And as far as the scene goes -- how much direction did Steve give you before you went in there, and then during filming? Was he calling stuff out to you or did he just let you do your thing?

DDL: At certain points he would be like, "Move this way" or "Just keep doing what you're doing" or maybe "Change angles a little bit." I'd say at certain points we collaborated, we talked it out.

CC: It was really funny because DeeDee and I were like, "OK -- this is what we're going to do to, Michael." [laughs] "We're going to kiss each other, and then you're going to go that way and I'm going to go this way, and then we're going to switch." But that's the burlesque side of us coming out, because we were choreographing it like an act.

6. SOME OF THE NUDITY INVOLVED MOVIE MAGIC (AND RESULTED IN AMNESIA!)

Were you guys covered at all during the scene, or were you completely naked?

DDL: We were covered. They gave everybody flesh-colored panties.

CC: Why do people always ask that? It's so weird.

I mean, it's clear that there are angles -- that things are shot a certain way and there's a certain amount of movie magic, but there are some parts where you all get in there, and it makes a person curious! I remember there's a part with you, Calamity, where Michael just sticks his face in your butt.

CC: Was that my butt? No, it was your butt. [Nods to DeeDee]

DDL: [laughs] Oh yeah, no, it was my butt. [DeeDee and Calamity laugh]

Sorry! At a certain point there are just body parts flying! I remember watching it and thinking, "How did they do that without DOING that?"

DeeDee: I said that too, because I was like, "When did that happen?" [DeeDee and Calamity laugh]

7. THE LIVELINESS ISN'T RESERVED FOR THE MOMENTS BETWEEN "ACTION" AND "CUT"

What happened when you guys cut during the scene?

CC: We always high-fived each other and were always like, "Great job!" They were so cool, they just hung out.

DDL: Yeah, we'd joke around and talk smack. We had to be there at 6 p.m. for hair and make-up ... and then, I don't know when we started, maybe two hours later? Until like two in the morning.

CC: I think we all had a really good time. We were all very comfortable with each other and we joked around -- there was rapport. Because there was a couple of takes that we all started making out before the cameras started rolling, because we were like, "Oh, OK, let's start!" [Calamity and DeeDee laugh]

DDL: And then Steve would be like, "Guys -- I'm not rolling yet!"

8. IT'S YOUR DUTY TO KISS AND TELL

I don't mean to state the obvious, but you ladies are kind of the envy of women everywhere. You're one degree from Michael Fassbender -- you're the closest I'm ever going to be to the man! So you have to dish, because I'll never get to make out with him!

CC: He's a good kisser! His body's pretty cut.

DDL: Yeah, I agree.

FOLLOW MOVIEFONE

Michael Fassbender has gotten some deserved awards-season buzz for his towering role in "Shame" -- a film where he famously bared all. If you've seen the movie, you know Fassbender wasn't the only one...
Michael Fassbender has gotten some deserved awards-season buzz for his towering role in "Shame" -- a film where he famously bared all. If you've seen the movie, you know Fassbender wasn't the only one...
 
 
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larryberglof
BO...misleading America since 2008
11:41 AM on 01/17/2012
Considering that most movie sex scenes are uncomfortably, "not sexy", why bother? The audience that they appeal to in the first place, (teenage boys) are generally exempted because of their ratings anyway.
01:40 PM on 01/18/2012
Again - I ask if any of you posting have seen the film? It is brilliant in its shamefulness - pun intended! One almost feels shamed watching it. Definitely NOT for teenage boys. The sex scenes in 'Shame' while filled with the main character's extreme emotional pain are actually kind of sexy in a strange, desparate and surreal way. They are not really disgusting - well, maybe one!. but I think that's why some audiences feel 'ashamed' watching it. There's a certain voyeurism that takes over and there was definitely an uncomfortable feeling in the 250 packed seat theater... Still, I am a film enthusiast, lecturer and film festival organizer so I see a lot of weird films and am used to somewhat shocking material - however, "Shame" disturbed me and stayed with me for days... some imagery is hard to expel from one's mind.
See the film and then post!
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larryberglof
BO...misleading America since 2008
09:08 PM on 01/18/2012
Nah.....don't think so!
08:59 AM on 01/17/2012
WHERE'S MY COMMENT?
08:34 AM on 01/17/2012
with all these insta-artists (LMFAO) who needs doctors?
08:12 AM on 01/17/2012
WE CAME IN THE WORLD NAKED WE LEAVE THE WORLD NAKED
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boba7576
I'm a REDNECK , Get use to it !!!
08:06 AM on 01/17/2012
WHO are THESE people ?
I've never heard of any of them .
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alumcreek
sorry to see humanity repeating errors ad nauseam
08:43 AM on 01/17/2012
IGNORANCE HAS ITS REWARDS AND ITS DRAWBACKS.
BloodGlutton
I'm not likely to even read your angry response.
09:04 AM on 01/17/2012
Two of them no one has heard of before. Kind of says that RIGHT IN THE ARTICLE. The other one you'd have heard of if there were a movie theater up in those cracker hills you live in.
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boba7576
I'm a REDNECK , Get use to it !!!
09:08 AM on 01/17/2012
Theaters are TOO expensive , I just wait till they come on tv in a couple years .
rlpl02
Motivational Bull****er
07:48 AM on 01/17/2012
Porn with a plot!
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rrsltx
Stay on the fence, the view is better
07:33 AM on 01/17/2012
I've never felt comfortable watching sex and nudity in a crowded theater. I'm not a prude, but I find it awkward. Sex is supposed to be a private thing between consenting adults.
08:36 AM on 01/17/2012
yes - many adults
07:22 AM on 01/17/2012
Lowest common denominator, I like movies that show people getting along..........
xgomazx
I am We
06:50 AM on 01/17/2012
I am an american and admittedly typically lear to the conservative side but. But I will never understand American puritism. Other then some middle eastern countries. We are the prudes of the world.
Its sex. Hard core, soft core, implied..whatever.Anyone else know of another more pure beautiful and naturally pleasurable thing in the world?

And with us Its ok and even uber cool to have a movie where people run around either hacking other people up with chainsaws, butcher knives axes. etc or war movies run around shooting & blowing people up in war movies a subject which is probably the most dehumanising experience a person can have.

But we are horrified and find "vulgar" and disusting when people have sex in a movie.
We complain how sex in movies of any kind "objectifies" (eyeroll) women or men while failing to recognise that as humans we are all sex objects and as such objectification is one of the most natural and "human"things we do.

Or logic defies any logical reasoning and seems to be a bit distorted. to say the least
Its ok to make films that show pain,hatred and the destruction of life. But not films that show the activity of pleasure,human love and the one thing that creates life.

that being said. Real and actual sex scenes in mainstream movies is comming to a theater near you some day. Better start getting used to the idea.
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alumcreek
sorry to see humanity repeating errors ad nauseam
08:45 AM on 01/17/2012
Violence in public is sexy and public sex is disgusting if you are a puritanical person.
09:50 PM on 02/11/2013
Get over yourself.
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billythekid1942
04:59 AM on 01/17/2012
Just another Liberal Hollywood piece of CRAP.
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anitafeeney
no matter where you go there you are
05:23 AM on 01/17/2012
oh stuff a sock in it will ya
06:55 AM on 01/17/2012
The Conservative version will open in Jeddah, Saudi Arabia soon...you should be there to enjoy it!
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alumcreek
sorry to see humanity repeating errors ad nauseam
08:46 AM on 01/17/2012
You should supply that person with a one way ticket and a large cross to wear.
01:36 AM on 01/17/2012
Have any of you actually seen the film? It's intense. Not for light banter, discussion on this film should be really serious. It is rated NC-17 for a reason and an article about a particular sex scene in 'Shame' is appropriate as it is shocking and when you see it you can't help wonder, how is a non-porn film getting away with this?? If one thinks one can handle this film, see it because it is brilliant. Otherwise, be wary...
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mh430
CHUCK my great dane, stands by all my comments
12:46 AM on 01/17/2012
I admit I didn't read the entire article. But as long as it's kissing and touching I don't think I would have a problem. If anthing more, I would be kicked off the set. I see nothing wrong with sex scenes when done in good taste. Nudity isn't a problem for me but when with teenager are present I think it's important to tell them that it's something beautiful when you have two conscenting people of legal age. Sex is going to happen but I don't believe that giveing condomes to 12-15 year olds is appropriate. Preparing for a sex scene would have me terrified. Something that comes naturally can be scarey when following a script.
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Vanderbil Covington
It is better to be wise than just knowledgeable
12:24 AM on 01/17/2012
American enterainment has dropped to such a creative low, they can only resort silly sex scenes and dialogue replace real talent and content. To use suggested sex as a theme filler, while vehemently avoiding overtly hard sex is hypocritical and childish. American perception of actual sex has become distorted to the point of absolute absurdity
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mh430
CHUCK my great dane, stands by all my comments
12:59 AM on 01/17/2012
I agree with you as far as having sex scenes when they don't really do anything to enhance the movie. But in some love movies I think that sex scenes are necessary. Watching the charactors meet and the gradual increase of sexual tension reminds me of when I first started dating at 16. Just touching her hand, our bodies rubbing against each other, the first awkward kiss. I think it can be compared to someone using a drug for the first time and always chasing that high. I've never used illigal drugs but have read about drug addicts and experimental drug use. I'm long past those years but I have very fond memories. I also believe that every female celebraity or beautiful women should have herself filmed in the nude so when they age they can have it to remember their youth. When they get older they can look back and share if they feel comfortable.
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Vanderbil Covington
It is better to be wise than just knowledgeable
07:45 AM on 01/17/2012
Having attractive women display themselves in on screen nudity is nothing short of burlesque exploitation. If a woman wants to remeber how she once looked, let her get a camera and photo album
05:24 AM on 01/17/2012
*coughs* You DO realize 'Shame' is a BRITISH movie, not American, yes?
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Vanderbil Covington
It is better to be wise than just knowledgeable
07:39 AM on 01/17/2012
I have not seen the movie, nor am I interested
Steve68112
Provoking thought through sarcasm
11:32 PM on 01/16/2012
Are you sure it was a swanky wine bar, and not a wanky swine bar?
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YakittyGirl
Pro deo et patria
12:21 AM on 01/17/2012
Steve, that was funny!
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tomatomike44
11:14 PM on 01/16/2012
H.L. Mencken was right. "No one ever went broke underestimating the intelligence of the American public."